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Cover of My Year of Rest and Relaxation

Literary fiction

My Year of Rest and Relaxation

★★★★★ 3/5

Finished March 25, 2026 · audio

I both loved and hated this book.

I both loved and hated this book. I loved that the main character is awful — that’s so much more fun than reading about a good person. But I didn’t like anyone even a little: the protagonist, the frenemy, the therapist, the guy she’s seeing — all awful. My snarky read: if the main character had actual boundaries, the whole book would be irrelevant. I enforce mine fiercely, so the passivity was genuinely infuriating. And then the last page arrived — totally unexpected, sad — and I realized I’d read the whole book as if any of it mattered, only to land somewhere that said: absolutely nothing matters, life is fleeting, we are all selfish, and the reckoning may arrive at our doorstep no matter how hard we work on ourselves.

Vibes

  • an awful main character
  • narcissists
  • dark but humorous
  • self-reflective spiral
  • absolutely nothing matters

Favorite moment

The last page. Read the whole book to get there.

Would recommend to

Someone who likes a dark but humorous and self-reflective spiral. Someone who doesn't mind reading about narcissists.